Sorry to hear that DD, i've been there twice, but neither one of them were intrested in racing, in fact neither one hardly ever went to the track with me. My last divorce was 1982 and i decided i wouldn't try marriage again, so single since then. Had opertunities but passed on them. Both my ex's parted on good terms and was never any bad feelings.
Good luck and keep your head up, it's not the end of the world.
Zip.