guys i tell u, im absolutly tickeld pink
all this time i thought it was somthin really bad
but guess what....
the speedometer cable came out of the trans while i was drivin today
and the noise stopped suddenly
i hooked the cable back up and the noise came back
then i listened really close to the speedometer while the noise what goin and i could hear it clear as day
needless to say i was very happy with this discovery
thanx to everyone who helped with my problem i really appreciate it