Ron/Wesley;
Just had to chime in on the wife thing, had to go thru a couple to find the right one. (That's more expensive than racing)
Current wife is 100% supportive. Helps out in the shop and at the track. She enjoys it as much as I do. We enjoy sharing it together. It really is a special thing (to me anyway) to have a partner that's your best friend and #1 crew chief!